I just found out that the man who molested me from ages 6-16 is in prison for 25yrs. In Ohio. Soon to be in the same prison that my biological father (clicking the links below will show you what a grade a citizen he isn't...) is in right now.
This man (stepfather, not bio dad) is in prison for 25 years for child molestation.
my little brother filed a case against him, just like I did 13+years ago..
but this time, my mom didn't try talking anyone out of it. didn't stand up for him...
13 years ago when I was trying to put him away, my mom covered for him, lied for him, abandoned me in NC with a cousin I had just met HOURS ago, and left to life with the bastard for 5 more years before leaving him. and she didn't leave him, she told my dad he was a bad guy and my dad threatened to kill him, so stepfather left.
13yrs ago, when I needed my mommy, when I needed anyone, when I lost a great friend and more to a fucking drunk asshole in Toledo because he was coming to get me... My mother, chose him..
But when it comes down to my little brothers saying the same things I said, saying how he did things to them... She stands up for them, and acts as a witness on the agreement that she can't be charged for aiding and abedding..
I wasn't good enough to save..
but they were.
and she even lied for them...
the dates in the paper say from April 26, 1989 (she didn't gt together with him until like 1992-93ish)
my little brother was BORN on Apr 26, 1989
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| Click here for how I found out about it all... |
I burst into tears last night. Bryan heard me and came up to me nearly in tears... he thought he did something wrong
He was charged. That's a good thing. It should make me feel at least a little better right??
It doesn't... it doesn't hurt less though
the fact that my mom.... my own mother, didn't care enough about me to do it for me, but ben and kenny matter enough
I've tried talking to her like my therapist says in the past, but it gets mo nowhere...
She's told people that she thinks I was just having flashbacks from the first guy that did it to me..
the one she is currently friends with on Facebook
Philip Meek
When i asked her how she could be friends with him, her response was "You can't tell me who I can and can't be friends with."
I was like O_o really???
two weeks (approximately) after my 16th birthday... back up.... December 10, 2001, I told David what was going on with my step dad, he called the cops, I ended up being put in custody of my mos friend by police until they could investigate. Nobody believed me. the cops sent me back home a couple weeks later or something, right after my bday. Dec 20. RIGHT after Christmas, we came home from dinner at a restaurant to see a notice on the front door. It was from CPS, saying they were there and would be back, there was a court order to remove custody and me from my mother's care.
She freaked.
Drove me to NC, introduced me to my cousin I'd never met, and told me I'd be living there... taking me away from my brothers and sister. No explanation, no nothing. Backdated POA papers to be a couple days before the CPS people came by, and left me with complete strangers. I came to love them, don't get me wrong.. Patty, Kristine, and Stacie were helpful in ways they'll never understand...
but it doesn't change the fact that she chose him over me.. multiple times.
when we had to go to court, my mom stuck up for him.
got everything dismissed telling them that I wasn't mentally competent to take a lie detector test
this is the same woman who has taken away Dylan(almost 10 now) and Elizabeth(barely 9)
she has Dylan, I worry every day that she will let it happen to him... that he might have it happen to him one day... I would die inside if it did...
Elizabeth lives with her father and brothers... She has a better life with them than I could ever provide her.. I do miss her and Anthony(nearly 7) and Dylan, and Asa(barely 3) so sooo much.
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